Remember the families


This post is dedicated to one of my best friends Jill who lost her husband SFC Robert Cheevar to pancreatic cancer a month after he returned from his last deployment to Afghanistan on 21 February 2010.

Memorial Day is a day to remember the heroes who have given their lives in service to this country. But there are people who have sacrificed just as much or even more that we must also remember, the families of these heroes. The families put up with the long work hours, the weeks of field time, the missed weekends, the 24 hour duty, and that’s when the Soldiers are at home.  Then there are the deployments, the hours of endless worry if they will get the dreaded visit by the casualty notification team. Then it comes their worst nightmare realized, an officer and a Chaplain show up at their door and ruin their world.

They just found out their husband, wife, son, daughter, father, mother won’t be coming home. Now they have to go on with out the person they were going to spend there future with. Yes the Soldier sacrificed his/her life, but their family has sacrificed their future.

I ask all of you if you know the family of a fallen hero thank them for their service and sacrifice, if you go to a national cemetery to pay respects to our fallen heroes, go up to the family members and thank them for their service and sacrifice. As much as we as  Soldiers sacrifice, we could never do it with out the love and support of our family back home.



2 thoughts on “Remember the families

  1. Reblogged this on Chicagoslick's Blog and commented:
    I have a nephew serving in the U.S. Military in Afghanistan. My whole family is very concerned about him. I just want him to come home with all his arms and legs, with no PTSD or traumatic brain injury. Regardless of how anyone feels about the war in Afghanistan, remember that it’s our American men and women over there. Please keep them all in your thoughts or prayers this Memorial Day.

    • I keep all our service men and women and their families in my prayers. I have been in the Army for almost 20 years and did 4 combat tours, I know what it feels like to have family worry about you while you’re overseas and I’m sure it’s nothing compared to the worry you guys go through. But with out you guys we could never do our jobs. Thank you for supporting the Military. I will keep your nephew in my prayers.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s